As far as size goes, I think I am skinny. Maybe not according to everyone, but I see a skinny girl when I look in the mirror. I don't weigh myself, but when I go to the doctor's they weigh me and the last time I went I weighed in at 124 lbs. I am about 5'3" - 5'4". I wear a size 4 - 7 depending on how much I spend on the clothes. It seems the more I spend the smaller my size. The size on a tag means absolutely nothing to me. I have clothes that say XS and clothes that says L. I don't care as long as it fits.
My body is not perfect, I still have issues with my body. I am at a weight where I eat a mainly healthy diet, but over all I eat what I want. I don't work out like I should, even though I want to. I wish I was more toned, my boobs are fake (Hey someone had to put them back to their pre-baby glory!), and my stomach is a little flabby that no amount of sit ups will cure and has so many stretch marks it could double as a map. (I would get a tummy tuck if I could.) But clothed, I think it looks pretty darn good if I do say so myself. I love my body clothed. Not so much in a bikini. But hey we can't have it all can we?
Now for how I feel about size in general. I think women of all sizes can be beautiful. I think how a woman carries herself and what she wears makes the body. I fully believe we are all made in different shapes and sizes and we should embrace what we have and stop comparing ourselves to each other and love who we are. Easier said than done. I know. There are certain times of the month when nothing fits and everything just makes me look puffy in all the wrong places. I get frustrated and wish I was taking better care of myself because I like how I look and if I don't do better, I won't get to stay looking the way I do. But for the most part I am happy with how I look and I wish more women were too. Skinny or big we can all look good.
Speaking of someone who looks amazing and owns it. A friend turned me on to a blog by Erica Bunker. She is a size 14 - 16 (according to her sewing patterns) and she is GORGEOUS and I mean GORGEOUS!!! She sews her own clothes and her blog is about her sewing. I am in serious awe of her talent! This is a woman who is the size of most woman here in the U.S. and she looks amazing! This is what I mean that all women can be beautiful. If we all took the time to care about our appearance, then I think we could all be beautiful regardless of size. When I see a mom at the store wearing some unshaped t-shirt and ill fitting jeans and sneakers and her hair in a messy ponytail. I just want to grab her and give her a makeover. I think we sometimes forget to take care of ourselves.
Now with all that being said, I still think there are people out there that are too fat. There are people that for whatever reason have given up and just gained an insane amount of weight. These are the people I feel bad for. I wonder what made them give up. It makes me sad and it makes me angry when I see what some of these people have done to their children. I get so frustrated. I understand that there can be health conditions that can prevent someone from being thinner, but there is a difference between morbidly obese and a healthier weight. I wish these people the strength to find themselves and a way to be healthier.
So there it is, all out in the open. My opinion on my size and everyone else's. Probably way more than you wanted to know. I hope I didn't offend anyone, now let's all get off our bums and give ourselves a good stretch. But before you go let's get to another one of the Revlon Street Wear's that Andi from the VivaNails blog sent me. (Yup Andi - I just plugged your blog again!) This one is called Burnt. She actually sent me two called Burnt but they are totally different from each other. I fell in love with this one though. It is such a great grey olive color with shimmer. So cool! It was perfectly opaque in two coats. Now ignore my manicure skills. I apparently got this all over my cuticles, but ironically I didn't notice it at all until I saw the pictures. I almost didn't show these - but the color is just too amazing.
This is with a top coat.
Here it is without a topcoat. Almost matte but not quite.
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